Subject: Toby / Ezikiel / [Unknown third alias]
Date of Birth: July 24, 2005
Place of Birth: Florida, USA
Education / Residence History: Graduated high school in Pennsylvania; subsequently resided intermittently with mother, then father.
Family Background:
Mother: Maritza Santana
Father: Robert Smith
Residential Instability:
Subject was reportedly expelled from mother's residence (post-graduation) and later from father's residence upon turning 18.
BEHAVIORAL & RELATIONAL HISTORY (Summary of Reported Allegations)
Grooming & Criminal Predation:
When the subject was 16 years old, he began grooming a female victim who was only 8 years old. He maintained this predatory manipulation for 5–6 years.
Infidelity & Emotional Harm:
He cheated on her multiple times. That cheating over time contributed to her becoming depressed and suicidal.
Sleep Deprivation as a Control Tactic:
The subject would not let the victim sleep, effectively blackmailing her to stay awake. He used manipulative statements such as, "I get depressed at night... you can't fall asleep first," and "Fine, I'll just find someone else to talk to." He also deliberately asked her questions late at night to ensure she remained awake, forcing her to keep her full attention on him just to answer his questions correctly.
Isolation & Monitoring:
He expressed displeasure when the victim showered, as he considered that time "away from him," demonstrating an unwillingness to allow her any private or basic self-care activities.
Response to Victim's Suicide Attempt:
When he found out she attempted suicide, he did not support her or step back. Instead, he made it all about himself, saying he should die instead and that he was going to overdose. The victim, who was still young and scared, tried calling him that night. He ignored her calls.
Manipulative / Crisis Exploitation:
Rather than showing concern for her life, the subject used her suicide attempt as an opportunity to center his own pain and threaten self-harm. When she needed him most, he abandoned her by ignoring her calls.
Post-Breakup Conduct (2 Years Later):
The subject contacted the victim two years after they broke up. He stated he was sorry for what he did but blamed his behavior on his autism. (Note: Autism is a neurodevelopmental condition and is not an excuse for grooming, abuse, sleep deprivation, or emotional manipulation.)
RISK INDICATORS (Summary)
Toby/Ezikiel (16) grooming a minor (8) – a clear power differential and criminal act.
Repeated cheating used to destroy a victim's self-worth.
Sleep deprivation as a blackmail and control mechanism.
Forced late-night questioning to maintain dominance and attention.
Controlling behavior extending to basic activities (showering).
Emotional neglect and role-reversal during a mental health crisis.
Suicidal threat (overdose) used as a control tactic.
Ignoring victim's calls after she attempted suicide, leaving her alone and frightened.
Post-breakup faux-apology deflecting accountability onto autism.
Final Notes:
His picture: https://sharehost.me/u/ANdoWf.png
He identifies as LGBTQ+ (specifics unknown) and is generally described as a horrible person based on the pattern of predatory and abusive behavior outlined above.